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LETTING GO OF

ONE-SIDED LOVE

Love is a beautiful, divine feeling and must be experienced by all. But, what if you’re
not loved back by the person you love?

e love our help you move on, because, insensitive and rude way. I love-filled bubble that you
Bollywood after all, what good is realized that I am not being are living in and forget
love guru unrequited love? respected, and decided about the person and this
WShah Rukh not to message him again.” relation. “It’s better to let
Khan but we couldn’t REALIZE YOUR No matter how much you go of the person to avoid
help but disagree with SELF-WORTH like or love the person, extreme bitterness. The
his famous dialogues Aakriti Jain, a 20-year-old no one should be over loss of self-respect and
about the undying powers student shares, “I liked a you or your self-respect. self-value may continue
of unrequited love. very close friend of mine, If you realize that the if you choose to be with
Love, when shared and but he didn’t. So, he just person is not bothered by someone who doesn’t love
exchanged between two took me for granted. My or is not reciprocating to you. You should never beg
people, is a sacred feeling emotions and feelings your feelings, it’s better anyone for love,” suggests
and is all you need to feel didn’t matter to him and to uphold your dignity. marriage and relationships
complete. The same love he often acted in a very Burst the fancy, hopeless, counsellor Shivani Misri
could be devastating and Sadhoo.
draining if it turns out to be “You can't make someone fall in love with
one-sided. You can’t make you or ask them to stay when they least DISTANCE YOURSELF
someone fall in love with want to. Let go of the person and FROM THE GUY
you or ask them to stay “Out of sight, out of mind”
when they don't want to. the bitterness " is what a psychological
So, here are some tips to notion says. The more
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